One of the most essential articles in a gay man’s toy box besides a bottle of poppers is the common cock ring. Now that does not mean that the cock ring itself has to be common. Take a look at these babies from Gear Essentials. Talk about top shelf all the way! I have one in black chrome myself. I splurged a little on vacation.
What is surprising to me at least is the amount of Gay Romances featuring dildos whipped out at a moments notice or the ever mentioned butt plug (These things I have or have had but honestly I just do not use them as much as I see mentioned in stories.) but not one I have read has mentioned a stupid everyday cock ring. Maybe I am just abnormal but I don’t think a guys first sex toy purchase is the dildo as much as the more harder to identify “the use of” cock ring which can just be seen as a large metal/rubber washer like object or a small leather strap with a snap type bracelet.
There are other riffs on the design features of a cock ring though. I have been looking at trying one of these Mr. S ~ Silver Tongue Cock Rings NSFW! when I get a few bucks together to get one. The extra metal part fits snuggly um underneath and hits a certain area that makes things a bit better if you know what I mean.
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Chris wrote,
Hmm. I’ve read many more gay romances that include cock rings than that even mention poppers.
Link | March 10th, 2010 at 11:17 am
TeddyPig wrote,
Well they are not healthy that is for sure but it’s just one of those things where most guys I know have them but do not mention them.
Link | March 10th, 2010 at 11:20 am
Moriah Jovan wrote,
Okay, look. How do you put the damn thing ON???
Link | March 10th, 2010 at 1:17 pm
TeddyPig wrote,
When fitting for a cock ring and you have no clue you can either use a measure or I have even had people ASK to show their junk to make sure they get the right fit. Be careful not to get too small or too large. You want fit not bragging rights or pain.
I myself know my size… 1 and 7/8 but at first I went in and tried them on. OK… sometimes you can get them to allow you to go try the cheap small gauge metal ones on since those are the bottom barrel and they don’t care.
Next you have to be “not excited”.
Next insert balls because they tend to go in one at a time.
Next scrunch in the meat till the ring fits snuggly but no pinching or pain at the base of all three objects in question without pulling out the hair.
My rule of thumb is it should not feel like it could slip off at your most unexcited BUT it should not feel like it is stopping blood flow when you are absolutely soft. You could wear the thing all day in your jeans without any real pain but you still can feel the ring hugging your junk loosely.
Then enjoy a much longer harder time had by all when the embiggening begins to happen. I am talking extended time baby.
Warning, you have to either finish the task or sit around and wait for sufficient shrinkage to take place to get it back off. Do not force the issue or it will hurt. Just leave it on and put on some pants and go do something else it will come off at your next bathroom break and you can pocket it.
To get it back off after shrinkage follow the directions backwards.
For those who want immediate removal look into leather cock rings with the ever useful snap technology but they tend to pull hair more.
Link | March 10th, 2010 at 1:24 pm
Moriah Jovan wrote,
Okay. Thank you! Dude and I have been thoroughly mystified.
Link | March 10th, 2010 at 1:26 pm
Moriah Jovan wrote,
I was looking at that pretty one-piece silver one with the “tongue” that you linked. My girly parts are a-tingle. TMI? You decide.
Link | March 10th, 2010 at 1:32 pm
TeddyPig wrote,
I suggest STRONGLY you go cheap to get the right fit and by cheap I mean get several small gauge metal plain rings in different sizes around what seems to be the guys actual size.
Then try them one at a time in private so he knows what he likes. Maybe he likes a snugger fit, maybe he wants it a little loose. Maybe he wants to just go get that Prince Albert in a zero gauge he has always secretly longed for.
Everyone is different here and the sizes are generally set across the board in these cock ring selections so reactions to what would seem to be the right size can be different.
THEN and ONLY THEN go blow $100.00 on the fancy stuff like the Silver Tongue.
Find a good store and have some fun with this stuff first. Top shelf is no better than crap if the fit or the function is not perfect for the guy.
Link | March 10th, 2010 at 1:54 pm